using ayla now
I have recently started to explore using my middle name now for everything that isn’t official. The primary reason for me is that Ayla sounds more femme than Wren, and being a trans femme woman, this is important to me. I haven’t really had the opportunity to use it much while here in Spain, but when we come back in March, I’ll be Ayla.
i use the pronunciation eye-luh, not a-luh.